Narcissism
Narcissistic?
I think if people blog, chances they are.
I have been trying to figure out why the fuck people love to blog so much, love to read other 's people blog so much. Sometimes i just think it is plain sick to read what other people is writing, doing and thinking...its like stalking... But WTF, you write , i read lor, is that simple, Knn..
I realised that Narcissism is a psychological disorder, so most of the blogheads are ....SICK IN THE BRAIN, HAHAHA!!
"Narcissism refers to some of the ways people defend themselves against this narcissistic dynamic: a concern with one’s own physical and social image, a preoccupation with one’s own thoughts and feelings. There are, however, many other behaviors that can stem from narcissistic concerns, such as immersion in one’s own affairs to the exclusion of others, an inability to empathize with others’ experience, interpersonal rigidity, an insistence that one’s opinions and values are 'right' and a tendency to be easily offended and take things personally."
"People who are narcissistic commonly feel rejected, humiliated and threatened when criticised. To protect themselves from these dangers, they often react with disdain, rage, and/or defiance to any slight, real or imagined. To avoid such situations, some narcissistic people withdraw socially and may feign modesty or humility."
Hmm...now i realised why people actually can debate, argue and shoot each other off at the COMMENTS page of a blog...you air your LJ views, the bloghead not happy, shoot back, shoot here shoot there, hence your LJ blogs got 24 to 5o Comments..all because your self indulgence stupid behaviour is at play. I cam across at least 5 blogs are like that..people there are so bohliao...once again this prove you are narcissitic, cannot feel rejected, criticsed..KNN...
"People who has Narcissistic personality disorder has a grandiose sense of self-importance, is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love ...believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by other special people... requires excessive admiration... strong sense of entitlement.... takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends ....lacks empathy is often envious or believes others are envious of him or her.... arrogant affect"
This proves why i see so many blogs out there that have KNN er xin zhi lian photos and pics of damnselves in every other post that they write,....Knn...has fanatasies of beauty, ideal love..phui!!! Some of the male blogheads also post their own pics and photos..wahlau...so gay! Oh ya, some die die wanna become star bloggers, go on Tv, newspaper and what fuck..TMD. I dun mean to be rude, its people's personal blogs/journals, they can post and upload whatever fuck pics of damnselves they like...but a amount little pics will be nice, too much abit showoff and pointless.
Then come the question, If i comment duo duo about these stupid crap then why the fuck do i still read some of them?...well, i read them because its so damn interesting to see someone trying to write something day in day out , trying to impress those pathetic lousy readers ..knn i am seldom impress by stuff they wrote..just fucking amused hahaha!!!!
''Echo and Narcissus''.
I think if people blog, chances they are.
I have been trying to figure out why the fuck people love to blog so much, love to read other 's people blog so much. Sometimes i just think it is plain sick to read what other people is writing, doing and thinking...its like stalking... But WTF, you write , i read lor, is that simple, Knn..
I realised that Narcissism is a psychological disorder, so most of the blogheads are ....SICK IN THE BRAIN, HAHAHA!!
"Narcissism refers to some of the ways people defend themselves against this narcissistic dynamic: a concern with one’s own physical and social image, a preoccupation with one’s own thoughts and feelings. There are, however, many other behaviors that can stem from narcissistic concerns, such as immersion in one’s own affairs to the exclusion of others, an inability to empathize with others’ experience, interpersonal rigidity, an insistence that one’s opinions and values are 'right' and a tendency to be easily offended and take things personally."
"People who are narcissistic commonly feel rejected, humiliated and threatened when criticised. To protect themselves from these dangers, they often react with disdain, rage, and/or defiance to any slight, real or imagined. To avoid such situations, some narcissistic people withdraw socially and may feign modesty or humility."
Hmm...now i realised why people actually can debate, argue and shoot each other off at the COMMENTS page of a blog...you air your LJ views, the bloghead not happy, shoot back, shoot here shoot there, hence your LJ blogs got 24 to 5o Comments..all because your self indulgence stupid behaviour is at play. I cam across at least 5 blogs are like that..people there are so bohliao...once again this prove you are narcissitic, cannot feel rejected, criticsed..KNN...
"People who has Narcissistic personality disorder has a grandiose sense of self-importance, is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love ...believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by other special people... requires excessive admiration... strong sense of entitlement.... takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends ....lacks empathy is often envious or believes others are envious of him or her.... arrogant affect"
This proves why i see so many blogs out there that have KNN er xin zhi lian photos and pics of damnselves in every other post that they write,....Knn...has fanatasies of beauty, ideal love..phui!!! Some of the male blogheads also post their own pics and photos..wahlau...so gay! Oh ya, some die die wanna become star bloggers, go on Tv, newspaper and what fuck..TMD. I dun mean to be rude, its people's personal blogs/journals, they can post and upload whatever fuck pics of damnselves they like...but a amount little pics will be nice, too much abit showoff and pointless.
Then come the question, If i comment duo duo about these stupid crap then why the fuck do i still read some of them?...well, i read them because its so damn interesting to see someone trying to write something day in day out , trying to impress those pathetic lousy readers ..knn i am seldom impress by stuff they wrote..just fucking amused hahaha!!!!
''Echo and Narcissus''. I wanted to say this for a long time liao : FUCK YOU AND YOUR EXTREME NARCISSISTIC BEHAVIOR!! GO SEEK HELP....!!!!
Holyshit, why am i getting pissed ?...." ...lacks empathy ...arrogant affect "
...Knn, Am i narcissistic too? siao man...
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"We chased our pleasures here
Dug our treasures there
But can you still recall
The time we cried ?
..Break on through to the other Side ....I remebered everything that happened today."
F¡яєвџяN Spit At 11:59 PM
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I dont understand either. Ok, I may protray as if I'm a hardcore blogger and wanna be famous and I post zilian pics of myself. But.. what I dont understand is those haters who bother to read and comment on my blog!
Why they bother about my life? Why dont they do something else more worth while? I just dont understand!
Is it the more u dislike a person, the more u wanna read about his/her life?
jaslyn its probably just another way to hook you up or get yr attention..or either that they have nothing else better to do or they are just simply born withbad manners....
Burnie..you are a hardcore blogger too..heh..u write..i read..
but isn't this what's blogging about? write to read..read to write..
but people who reads then insults..i don't understand why they like to contradict themselves so much..they hate it..but they love it..screw them..
coffeewolf: thanks for dropping by my blog and read what I write.. hehehe..
Yea, some ppl are just too free! They shd blog too! Rather than commenting on ppl's blogs with crap and rubbish!
wa LAU !!
i OBJECT this line
"have KNN er xin zhi lian photos and pics of damnselves in every other post that they write,....Knn...has fanatasies of beauty, ideal love..phui!!! "
heY i dun understand , wats wrong with putting their own pics in their own blog ? very zhi lian meh ?
u refering to my blog too ? i posted the pics in my blog ... er xin meh ?
jaslyn : eh? how u know i popped by..
Means I no brain. =(
coffeewolf: u left comments wat! Wah lau! Hahahha
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So me only half 自恋 "zi-lian" cos me blanco-ed the faces.
Wahahahaha! You sure sound like the whole world are full of such narcisstic people and they are pissing you off...
Since narcissism is a word with negative connotations, perhaps another [less hostile] way of looking at the same issue is using this term called 'expressive-ness'.
People wanna express themselves whether someone else is reading their blog or website. Wanna to create a favorable online impression is no sin; it may be likened to sculpturing. You cut away unwanted material to present a masterpiece.
Of course, there are always excessively vain people who wanna flaunt themselves and their possessions online and offline.
This inclination is not caused by blogging. Although blogging provides another avenue for their zhilian-ness.
Blogging about one's thoughts provide an avenue for people to understand how each other think. This may actually help to build intellectual, social and emotional bridges in subtle ways.
I blog.
I put my own face on the blog.
I do not fear criticism although I am less forgiving towards silly goats who post some shitty comments, trying to pretend that they are someone greater than themselves.
I always enjoy a good exchange of ideas, a debate or discussion online (as long as I am not too tired or upset).
I try to create a positive image of myself online. I will say that I am vain, but I do want to present a nice me to others. They din do anything to deserve a shitty me, right?
Of course, that also means I will refrain from blogging when I am upset. Cos only silly things and things that will alarm my loved ones will come out when an upset me starts to blog.
So, do you still wanna point your 10, uhm, 2 middle fingers at me? =)
*sniffs while scratches head*
Oh well, most of them people failed to differentiate between real life and Internet life.
Like it or not, everyone has a certain level of 'zi lian' (self loving); it's moderate for normal people, but for some they have great ego (which at times I am), and for some they are just shameless attention whores.
[P/S And oh dear Kurakat : No one's pointing at you. Why are you pointing at yourself ? And why are you defending yourself when no one's attacking you ? :) ]
Hehe... No lah... Not defending myself... I am just thinking out aloud... =)
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